L & M Matchmaking is Local, Professional, and Confidential
Why Should You Use L & M Matching?
Dating as an elite man over 60 can be challenging. It's time consuming, frustrating, and risky. And finding high-quality women who are truly interested in meaningful connections can be hard, if you don't know where to look. Our holist approach eliminates all the speculation.
The L & M process begins with gaining an understanding of your values, interests, and lifestyle. Then we hand-pick exceptional women who align with what you’re truly looking for—not just on the surface, but in substance. Each potential match is thoroughly background checked and fully vetted to ensure safety, compatibility, and genuine intent, giving you confidence and peace of mind as you build meaningful connections.
Our Unique Approach
A Highly Personal, Hand-Picked Dating Experience
Unlike traditional dating services that rely on outdated databases or AI-driven algorithms, L & M Matchmaking offers you a customized, hands-on approach through our exclusive Progressive Matching Model.
During your in-depth Discovery Session, you’ll speak directly with Lori and Michele who take the time to truly understand the qualities, lifestyle, and values you seek in an ideal partner. Your matches are then hand-selected and thoughtfully guided through our Progressive Matching Model, ensuring every woman you meet is not only physically attractive but also aligned with your same relationship goals. This highly curated process eliminates mismatched expectations and the guesswork often associated with conventional dating processes.
We Know the STL Dating Scene
We have 50 years of collective experience in the matching and dating space. We are both single and have extensive experience in meeting and matching in traditional and non-traditional ways.
We Only Focus on Elite Men 60+
We’re at the same stage of life you are, and we get it. Dating now comes with a different set of challenges and rewards than it did years ago. We understand what it means to want a genuine connection with someone who shares your interests and outlook on life. This isn’t just something we talk about, it’s something we live. With both personal experience and professional insight, we’re walking this journey with you.
You Experience a Holistic Approach to Dating
We understand how difficult it can be to put yourself back out there—especially if you haven’t dated in a while, have experienced disappointment, or are navigating life after the loss of a partner. We know that successful dating isn't just about finding the right match; it’s about personal transformation, letting go of the past, embracing what’s possible, and being open to meaningful new connections. Our holistic approach is designed to support your journey fully, helping you grow in confidence, reconnect with your true self, and feel genuinely good about the experience every step of the way.
Confidence Coaching & Image Consulting
Two key components of our holistic services are confidence coaching and image consulting. Confidence coaching helps you reconnect with your strengths, refine your communication, and approach dating with clarity and ease. Image consulting ensures your personal style reflects the best version of you; polished, attractive, and aligned with the lifestyle you want to project. Together, these services ensure that when we find the right woman for you, she’ll see you as the ideal match for her as well.
Your Matches are All Strictly Vetted
Every woman we introduce you to has been personally screened, background-checked, and verified to ensure authenticity and alignment. These are quality women who, like you, are genuinely seeking a meaningful connection and a true partner in love.